Women here lives with their parents till they get married, it is very different than west, in west women can live alone, even one of them lives in her apartment from 18 years old as we know.
But do you think western way support women & their future? Or in east women are taking action towards their parents even if they are not married, spending their life to help their parents.
I don't try to say this is better than that. but, let's discuss this issue it's sort of mixing thoughts, ideologies; getting outside home for women mean new life, new page in her life; Do you think women with open freedom can lose their personal respecting?
Or that related to her own morals & what she wants as a woman?
Or women should be controlled by men & women obeyed them?
The interesting thing there are no women living alone here I don't know in other middle east countries, because if they do, Our society & culture will never mercy them, will attack their reputation though they have great morals as we say here "people will talk"!!!
Sometimes, I feel people's power more than religion's & moral's power, but people will talk even if you are angel,Why they have such a strong control into our lives?
Or we should be behind walls because of who we are; eastern women?
Do you think western women are more independence than eastern women?
Then, is it the right way to live alone without family? without parents? without someone shows you the right direction in your life or at least give you some advises?
My thoughts are leading me to another question, do we need to live alone to learn how to be individual & independence women, deciding, choosing & standing in front of the walls not behind them?
We don't want to live as a shadow because of culture barriers, I think many many women here live like that behind the wall, maybe it's the fear or men's power or weakness in their personality.
I must admit, It will take a long time to get our rights & it needs great efforts but, if we don't help ourselves no one will help us!